You close your laptop.
The board meeting ends.
You made the ask — clearly, calmly, strategically.
Someone nodded. Someone pushed back. Someone stayed unreadable.
From outside, it looks like a win.
Inside, it feels like a bruise.
That hollow ache in your chest isn't weakness.
It's what happens when you advocate without infrastructure — when your voice moves faster than your support system.
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